Wayne Dyer Is Always Right About That

As a sports nut, I appreciate teams, players, and coaches with a defensive mindset. When I played soccer, I preferred playing stopper and goalie over wing. I had fun scoring, but stopping the other team was more satisfying. Playing basketball, I was not the highest scoring, but as long as the opposing team couldn’t score, I always provided our team a chance to win with solid defensive play. I was successful in Texas no limit holdem online and in person. Overly aggressive players would self-destruct. My style of choice was playing defensively aggressive. I would pick and choose my spots to attack. My favorite play was the “check-raise”. This play regards holding the “nut” (best-hand) and checking to my opponent. As I check to my opponent, s/he would make a bet, and I would raise immediately. Most opponents were baffled, and sometimes would occasionally call my wager out of confusion. With my style of play, I would maximize my profits. I wanted to apply my defensive style in sports and poker towards my life. In time I discovered some work by a brilliant man by the name of Dr. Wayne Dyer.

Dr. Dyer is better known as “The Father of Motivation.” His work includes a host of books about manifesting and spirituality. A lot of his writing has touched my soul, especially what he speaks about ego.

I found Dyer’s work on Amazon Audible. In one audio clip, he talks about a technique to gain inner peace. He has four words to solve any argument. You’re right about that. He encourages his audience to use that phrase to anybody who wants to start a fight. You can’t argue with someone who won’t argue with you (???). He explains that you don’t have to argue with people when you use this phrase. What it does is defuses the combativeness. Saying these four words allows the other person to think they are right.

Using this technique towards conflict has helped me a great deal in finding peace. Instead of defending myself to somebody, I surrender and move on with my life. I have used this with strangers, friends, and family. Even if the person has an incorrect stat, I will say, “You’re right about that”. What’s so rewarding is I am not wasting energy. By not responding in a hostile or “are you kidding me” way, I avoid conflict. I love these words because it saves me a lot of time in my day. My favorite part of this concept is it allows me to get on to another topic! I find it much more enjoyably being on the same team, instead of hearing other opinions and points of view that I really couldn’t care less about.

Years ago, I would be hell bent on making sure I was right to everybody. I had to have my opinion and point of view heard. I would have to pull up the truth via Google or YouTube videos to ensure whomever I was speaking to was wrong. Letting that go, though has helped me eliminate stress. So, if anybody is reading this blog and would like to tell me, “This is the most useless blog I have ever read.” I would like to tell you, “You’re right about that.”

Royal Resources

Audio- The Ultimate Wayne Dyer Collection

Book- The Power of Intention-Dr Wayne Dyer

Book- Your Erroneous Zones- Dr Wayne Dyer

Book- Happiness is the Way- Dr. Wayne Dyer